tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post5330309797922894859..comments2023-07-16T06:55:37.559-06:00Comments on Survivor of Rape and Incest: Money Matterssurvivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09956175689498041699noreply@blogger.comBlogger11125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-91560944190750797592011-08-04T11:26:33.362-06:002011-08-04T11:26:33.362-06:00i am SO sorry for all that you have been through, ...i am SO sorry for all that you have been through, but I have to say that you are INCREDIBLE....because you have survived....i am glad to have found your blog...thank you for being SO very very brave, as to speak out and tell your story.DogwoodChefhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04963787064838420756noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-65144991815454344702011-05-19T23:48:06.007-06:002011-05-19T23:48:06.007-06:00i just wanted to let you know that you are an incr...i just wanted to let you know that you are an incredibly strong, beautiful and admirable person. my brother raped me when i was a child and i dont think i've ever read someone who was so honest with their experiences. it has messed me up for my entire life, and i must say you are an inspiration to put this all out here, because i have never told a soul what happened to me because of my Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-45773566804148378572011-04-29T01:21:56.739-06:002011-04-29T01:21:56.739-06:0004/22/2011
Last week I went on a so called DATE w...04/22/2011<br /><br />Last week I went on a so called DATE with a man whom portrayed himself as a college graduate in business and also stated he was a teacher. I felt like it was a good idea to meet this person as we had business studies in common as I went to school for business as well. <br />I have RA with other disabilities in-tow in which I am on medication for. <br /><br />That evening I Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-630443824510813212009-06-26T00:09:47.826-06:002009-06-26T00:09:47.826-06:00I am too,
but fuck! it wasn't your fault! and...I am too,<br /><br />but fuck! it wasn't your fault! and have you pressed charges? is he in prison yet? <br /><br />I'm so sorry for everything that you have gone through, and I know exactly how it feels, how it effects your every day life, relationships.<br /><br />Tell your sister what happened, she needs to know.Bicks https://www.blogger.com/profile/13568669809736978298noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-45822655462391487142008-05-21T11:18:00.000-06:002008-05-21T11:18:00.000-06:00I understand what you mean. Blaming someone, anyon...I understand what you mean. Blaming someone, anyone might give her relief.<BR/><BR/>I'm not convinced this is healthy though. As long as she blames you she never has to acknowledge it's her father's fault. Maybe one day she'll get therapy and the two of you can build a stronger relationshipTigrMchinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09597624445774478247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-44706156328086539282008-05-21T10:12:00.000-06:002008-05-21T10:12:00.000-06:00I used to blame myself for what happened for all o...I used to blame myself for what happened for all of those years. I thought I did something to deserve it. I now know I didn't, that it was all the bastards fault. Well, at least a part of me knows this because I sought and received help. My sister on the other hand has never gotten help and she still maintains a somewhat close relationship to the bastard and it's because of that relationship I survivorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09956175689498041699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-41734179355315912612008-05-20T11:32:00.000-06:002008-05-20T11:32:00.000-06:00hmmm.Here's a hypothesis. I'm not a pro, disregard...hmmm.<BR/><BR/>Here's a hypothesis. I'm not a pro, disregard my advice as silly or off the mark. I'm basing this off the following<BR/><BR/>1. You have issues with self-harm.<BR/>2. You let your sister blame you.<BR/>3. You don't think your sister needs to know the truth.<BR/><BR/>Is it possible, that letting your sister blame you is another form of self-harm? I pose the question because I, an TigrMchinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09597624445774478247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-20630706877765041892008-05-20T10:44:00.000-06:002008-05-20T10:44:00.000-06:00I won't tell my sister because she doesn't need to...I won't tell my sister because she doesn't need to know. If blaming me helps her, she can blame me all she wants. It's a different situation for us both, as this is my biological father and he adopted my sister who is my half sister.survivorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09956175689498041699noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-14586726841546924432008-05-18T16:45:00.000-06:002008-05-18T16:45:00.000-06:00Why won't you tell your sister?And I agree with Ly...Why won't you tell your sister?<BR/><BR/>And I agree with Lynn. You are not him; regardless of who he was, YOU can create good in the world.TigrMchinehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09597624445774478247noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-849272987245851402008-05-04T20:51:00.000-06:002008-05-04T20:51:00.000-06:00I am the product of a pedophile but I am not him.I...I am the product of a pedophile but I am not him.<BR/><BR/>I know what you mean about self harming, I haven't cut myself in 4 years but sometimes it would be suck a fucking relief.<BR/><BR/>I have been lucky to have a friend who is also a father figure to me. A sane one, a real one. One who doesn't wanna touch me or fuck me. A real father figure I trust 100% and have let go of my barrier because Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-81485327000291684082008-05-02T15:09:00.000-06:002008-05-02T15:09:00.000-06:00I am the product of the same. But I am not him. Th...I am the product of the same. But I am not him. There is a part of us that they can never, ever touch. I'm sorry you are going through such a hard time right now. I hope things will improve soon.Spilling Inkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13970126156464922867noreply@blogger.com