tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post112909565410560499..comments2023-07-16T06:55:37.559-06:00Comments on Survivor of Rape and Incest: No Means Nosurvivorhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09956175689498041699noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-7630721486523296342011-07-07T09:26:03.431-06:002011-07-07T09:26:03.431-06:00I was very confused for a long time because I have...I was very confused for a long time because I have faced similar situations. I believed they were my fault. I think there is a part of me that still believes that, but I know intellectually it is not true. One friend of mine gave me good advice on this - my friend said, "what if this same thing had happened to your own daughter - would you tell your daughter that it was your fault?"Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-17269777.post-18994174942772756672008-10-02T16:11:00.000-06:002008-10-02T16:11:00.000-06:00You didn't fail, you did not. Sometimes, a person ...You didn't fail, you did not. Sometimes, a person doesn't have enough strength to solve things, stop them from happening. You're only human. You can't blame yourselves. We all get weak. I'm sorry for what happened, I wish it would've been just a bad dream but it's not...it's a reality, a test from God. Hang in there.Aynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10698699258145918652noreply@blogger.com